God
has been directing my attention to the connection between the words I speak and
grace.
Matthew
12:35-37
The
good person out of his good treasure brings forth good, and the evil person out
of his evil treasure brings forth evil. I tell you, on the day of judgment
people will give account for every careless word they speak, for by your words
you will be justified, and by your words you will be condemned.
I
am not a person of grace by nature. I by nature don’t have a lot of mercy. That
truth comes out for the most part in my words. In the Matthew passage, we are
warned that God will hold us accountable for every careless word we speak.
Careless words are words that are useless, barren, or idle. They are words that
don’t produce positive spiritual fruit in our lives or in other’s lives.
Ephesians
4:29 says, “Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is
good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who
hear it.”
The
oppose of careless words are words that build up. The thing that allows my
words to be building up, words that produce positive spiritual fruit, and not
careless words, words that don’t produce positive spiritual fruit, is grace.
Raise the Roof and
Remove the Walls
is allowing grace to produce words that build up, not careless words.
The
result of careless words is condemnation of ourselves. Words that are careless
reflect the ungrace in my own life. Words that are careless don’t help others
to know Jesus and experience His grace or grow in grace to be more like Jesus.
When
we condemn people, we speak careless words.
When
we tell people they are worthless, we speak careless words.
When
we lie to people, we speak careless words.
When
we try to control people with our words, we speak careless words.
When
we try to just win an argument, we speak careless words.
Grace
allows our words to be words that give life.
In
John 6:68 Peter says that Jesus has the words of eternal life.
Raise the Roof and
Remove the Walls
is speaking words that lead to eternal life.
When
our words are careless, they grieve the Holy Spirit according to Ephesians
4:30. The Holy Spirit draws people to the person of Jesus. He testifies to the
truth that Jesus is the one and only Son of God. When we speak careless words
that don’t come from grace, that drives people away from Jesus and that brings
great sorrow to the Holy Spirit.
Our
words are not to be:
Bitter
Wrathful
Angry
Hate
Filled
Slanderous
Colossians
4:6 says that our speech should always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that
you may know how you ought to answer each person.
Careless
words are not gracious.
Carless
words are not seasoned with salt.
Careless
words don’t allow us to, with godly wisdom, answer what others want to know (because
they won’t dare to ask)
Raise the Roof and
Remove the Walls
is speaking words of grace that draw people to Jesus.
The
struggle I had was how to allow God’s grace to do away with my careless words
and replace them with words of grace that build up.
The
answer I found was in Ephesians 4:32. It says, “Be kind to one another,
tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.” The phrase
“as God in Christ forgave you” spoke to me. God was saying to me that He had
forgiven me even though I did not deserve it. God had forgiven me
unconditionally. God had forgiven the second I asked (He had actually provided
the means of my forgiveness before I asked). I didn’t have to beg Jesus to
forgive me, I just had to ask. When I was reminded of how God had forgiven me,
then how could I not forgive in the same way and how could I not speak words of
life and grace to others? No person will ever sin against me to the depth that
I have sinned against God.
Raise the Roof and
Remove the Walls
is speaking words of grace and forgiveness to others.
With
Grace Raising the Roof and Removing the Walls,
Joe